وہ کہتے ہیں کہ مرد کے دل کا راستہ اس کے معدے سے ہو کر گذرتا ہے اسی چکر میں ہماری عورتیں ساری عمر کچن میں محنت کرتی ہیں کے جانے کب دل تک رسائی ہو جائے.
Gol rotis have always been the standard for potential marriage proposals before the doctor bride craze. Women have always been under the radar for their cooking skills be it before marriage or after marriage life. Rishta aunties always use to ask, “khana wana bna leti hai?, silai karrhai aati hai?”.
Recently I saw a tweet in which a newly wed doctor bride whatsapped her sister a picture of loki asking, “Ammi se poch isay bnatay kesay hain?”. It was kinda cute too but at the end of the day what we want from a woman is just good/cooked food and that too on time?
I had an interesting tweet conversation about making gol rotis and the surprising part is men replying that they can make gol rotis too.
There is much more to a woman than the food she makes for her family despite the traditional standard of perfection set for a woman. National Food’s recent ad campaign focuses on importance of sahulat for women to get sometime out making memories with family. The idea of #NotAFailure hits me right in the feels as I can so relate to it and I see it creating a good dialogue over social media. Love such ads which prompt healthy discussion. Specially the line when she says, “Kitchen main ghanton na lagaon tou kiya main fail hogai?”.
I have been self employed since my college days as being from middle class you need to start earning as soon as possible. Being the eldest among my siblings and my forever love for food made me interested in cooking from school days. Whenever amma has cooked something I don’t like, I use to make my own portion of timatar rice or at least fries to have. When mom gets ill, I have to cook for the whole family and then I realize how important it is to have sahulat while cooking. Abba realized that I have problems in cooking for the whole family as my spice measurements weren’t perfect back then. He decided to help me with Spice mixes of National. I found my fairy God mother of cooking in the form of spice mix. Now I don’t have to worry about masala measurements and go again and again to amma asking ab kiya daalon?
It’s been two decades now since I began my foodie kitchen journey. I have then stepped into professional life and then kids happen. Now is the time when I need sahulat the most and I have no shame in admitting that I rely on packet ka masala the most now. Specially the khandaan famous Qorma has its credit to National Foods. Sssshhhhh don’t tell my khandaan.
No harm in finding yourself some me time or family time by getting an escape from kitchen while availing sahulat once in a blue moon. No need to miss on the Cricket matches you love because you have to cook for the family while they all are watching it Live. Either order food away or pre cook using spice mixes. Don’t miss out on the extra time ever. Never.
Reh gai gol roti tou guess karain uskay liaye konsi sahulat hai?